Relationships are About Mutual Growth, and how to Find your Life Partner.

When you are in a relationship with someone they are there to teach you something, it may only last a week, and you leave knowing you need to raise your standards or it may continue years and go you a broken mess questioning your very existence. But the lesson does not start when the relationship ends, it begins when it starts, the first word, the first date, the first kiss, the first i love you. Most of us will go through many relationships, each one teaching us and helping us grow. This is a good thing in the grand scheme of things, but in the short term, it will hurt like hell.

You may bounce from hookup to hookup for from one emotionally unavailable woman to another. You won’t ever move on to the next lesson until you learn the one you are being presented with. In an ideal world, you can move through these quickly and avoid unnecessary pain. You probably won’t for the first few, but my hope for you is that over time you will grow to the point where you can quickly learn the lesson and move on if they aren’t right for you. Or learn and grow over time with someone in a truly profound, intimate, and happy relationship.

You will know you have hit this point when you and your partner can cry, let out your emotions, show your deepest fears and confront them together over and over again until they disappear. I am putting this goal in your mind. This is what you should aim for, not a happy relationship , not dating a model or a rocket scientist. But someone you connect with physically, mentally, and emotionally and who you can mutually work through your issues. Now that i have put this goal into your mind, you need the tools to achieve this lofty goal.

First, you must work on mastering your ego, which I discuss (Here), Second is working on your issues on your own, which I discuss (Here), Third is the physical aspect which I discuss at length (Here).

I know you can do this, you can find a fantastic partner who completes and complements you. I believe in you; it is up to you to go out and do it.

Wishing you the best of luck on your journey -Emmit

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